Add ownersLock to protect concurrent access to node.owners between
GraphBuilder.processGraphChanges() (writer) and GC worker goroutines
reading in blockingDependents() and unblockOwnerReferences() methods.
Also fix concurrent reads in the HTTP debug handler (/graph endpoint)
for owners, dependents, beingDeleted, deletingDependents, and virtual
fields by using their respective thread-safe accessor methods.
* fix: 81134: fix unsafe json for ReleaseControllerRevision
1. Ensures that ReleaseControllerRevision returns a proper json by
marshalling an object into bytes. Otherwise, it returns an error.
2. Also, refactors the code to commonize the merge type
GenerateDeleteOwnerRefStrategicMergeBytes that returns a byte and is
used across ReleasePod, ReleaseControllerRevison
ReleaseReplicaSet.
* Move GeneratePatchBytesForDelete to controller_ref_manager
